Monday, January 31, 2011

Stole this from a friend who found this on YouTube:

"Green Day taught me that government's gonna fail someday.
Bruno Mars taught me to do anything for that one person I love.
Eminem taught me that life is hard but you can make it through.
The Script taught me how to move on.
Taylor Swift taught me not every guy is going to treat me right.
Michael Jackson taught me to always love the people around me.
Music taught me to live."

Sunday, January 30, 2011



This song makes me happy :o)
My heart beats like a drum
A guitar string to the strum
A beautiful song to be sung

Thursday, January 27, 2011

听着这首悲伤的歌曲,我心里便有凄凄之情了。



Maybe this is wishful thinking
Probably mindless dreaming
If we loved again I swear I'd love you right

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Progress


At work I've been modeling appropriate pretend play with students. There's a student who used to scratch other students' in the face as a way of exploring.. This particular student had the social skills of a 1 year old. At that age, they will explore by touching and so when another student was crying or being loud, he would run up to them and scratch or poke at their faces. Hence for some time his assigned seating was further away from the rest of the class. However, it was decided that that was not the best option. Instead, if he approached other students aggressively, he was told, "We keep our hands and feet to ourselves and we are nice to our friends." He has improved a lot, there are few incidents now and is able to play in the same area as other students.

These past few days as I modeled pretend play with other students, he has become more curious and has more interest interacting with his fellow classmates. This makes me very happy, because he rarely engages in playing with others.

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I am so grateful to have this opportunity to work with children with autism! Each step of progress makes me so happy

Here is some background info for people who are not familiar with this disorder.

Most parents of autistic children suspect that something is wrong by the time the child is 18 months old and seek help by the time the child is age 2. Children with autism typically have difficulties in:

  • Pretend play
  • Social interactions
  • Verbal and nonverbal communication
What I've witnessed while working with children with autism:

-- Routines are very important to them, it helps if they have individual picture schedules, so they know exactly what to expect.
-- They might have an attachment to specific objects, such as trains or buses or cars
-- They do not like to make eye contact
-- They prefer solitary or ritualistic play
-- intense tantrums

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Hello, through my heart~

Recently, I've noticed how a majority of people do not recycle. It happens in my work building and on my university's campus. Where I work, there are recycling bins in every classroom and in offices. Yet, many people will put what is recyclable in the garbage can instead of the recycling bin. One of my co-worker even told me that he throws out re-usable tupperware because he thinks that it is gross to reuse them! It baffles me how wasteful some people can be without feeling any guilt.

As for my university, I haven't seen a recycling bin in any of the classrooms. They have them in the cafeterias... but who will actually take their papers and bottles with them to the cafeteria to recycle? I had one professor who would make a huge stack of handouts about one inch thick every week we had class. The problem was she would make mistakes and copy the same pages twice. And there was no recycling bin in the classrooms! Anyhow, I just looked up the environmental student club on campus and emailed the adviser. I wonder if she will reply.

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My relationship with my sister continues to remain at a unloving standstill. The only times she actually talks to me is when she wants something. I scolded her today for the tone of voice she used to talk to our mother, very disrespectful... Anyhow I'm hoping it's our age gap and eventually as she matures we will have a better relationship. I realize that everyone's bad moods will bounce off one another, my mom came into my room and yelled at me for wearing shorts when it's so cold. Her eyes went all crazy bugged out and the volume of her voice raised several decibels. Seriously? it's not that serious. I wish my family were more soft spoken.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

“I’m not the silly romantic you think. I don’t want the heavens or the shooting stars. I don’t want gemstones or gold. I have those things already. I want…a steady hand. A kind soul. I want to fall asleep, and wake, knowing my heart is safe. I want to love, and be loved.” - Shana Abé
"For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others. For beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness. And for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone." - Audrey Hepburn

Thursday, January 6, 2011


"You always hurt the ones you love
The one you shouldn't hurt at all
You always take the sweetest rose
and crush it until the petals fall
you always break the kindest hearts,
With a hasty word you can't recall
And if I broke your heart last night,
It's because I love you most of all."- M. Buble